You will always feel like an intruder in his family.
Even if you met him after he divorced, in the eyes of everyone around you, you are the other woman.
That means 99% of people who date divorced men never make it to the finish line and here’s why. That means, no matter how pretty, smart, intelligent and perfect you are, his children will always be first in his life, especially if they are under 18 years old.
You will constantly battle to be the pride and centre of his universe.
When you first started dating, he was available at your fingertips, even on Monday morning for a date.
Worse off, if you don’t get along with the kids, you will feel neglected, unloved, you will begin to slowly resent him for always putting his children first.
Even if you do get along with the kids, the kids will always circle your relationship.
His kids will see you as proof that their parents will never reconcile.
His friends will find it hard to associate you as his new partner.