Dating with lupus

Now am dating and wondering how other people (my age or younger) handle discussing this sensitive issue.For those divorced, in their 50's, the men are also divorced but seem to have this image of getting the perfect woman the second time around.

I was diagnosed ith Lupus, Scleroderma and Sjorgen's 12 years ago at age 42.We have just as many wonderful qualities as someone with good health.And I actually find us Lupies really kind and compassionate which I think is a great quality.I often would see peole and say : How can they get through that" but the faced with my own problems, I did it. It is hard to get out of that conidtioning to hide every thing.Of course none of us want to wear the disease on our sleeve but it is ok to feel down about things for a while.

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