If you want to pay her a compliment don’t go overboard and don’t make it about how hot she is.Compliment her shoes or some accessory instead because that will show her you were paying attention to more than just her boobs! Don’t go where you’re not wanted or pop up out of the blue in her face: Make sure you aren’t going to scare the hell out of her before you start talking.
And above all else, don’t go where you aren’t invited.
After some very funny chats and inquiries with my girlfriends – a mix of Indian and expat women – I think I have come up with a solid list of tips and tricks to help you improve your chances of SUCCESSFULLY engaging a lovely lady in something more than a simple 3 second brush off on her part!
@Ladies: please feel free to comment and add to the list!
Be sure you have eye contact with her and be sure she wants to meet you first.
One of my friends calls it “eye sex” when she sees a guy across the bar and flirts with smiles and her eyes, hehe.