Finding a woman to love you tender isn't about throwing a burlap sack over her head and tossing her on the back of a truck.
It's also not about slithering up with some awful PUA lines and trying to bully-fuck her.
It's your last chance to magnetize those sexy dangerous party girls who wear bangles around the tops of their arms, so you really ought to have held something back.
And we're not talking about another line of mephedrone off the microwave—we're talking about an Uber account, a bottle of Glen's vodka, and (the promise of) a better party.
It might sound elementary, but the quickest way round that is to just ask her whom she came with.
\u003C\u002Fp\u003E\u003Cp\u003E Everyone knows that house parties tend to run dry at about 4 AM, around the time the last bottle of Cinzano runs out and the angriest roommate is marching around, shouting in her slipper socks.
If you're still stuck making Tinder small talk about her \"plans for the summer\" or the exact location of her office, you're fucked.
Your posts reveal who you are and what occupies your mind most. Avoid compliments diarrhea, commenting flattering words on so many of her pictures yet you do don't know each other well. Men who are loose with these words are not serious. Don't go liking and commenting suggestively on the pics of other women, don't flirt with other women, don't make her feel your chat with her is disrupted because you are giving attention to other women. Take her on dates on days and venues convenient for her.
When compliments are overdone by a stranger it can be spooky. Don't claim you love her yet you don't even know her. Her comfort is key, that's what a real gentleman does.
She is beautiful, of course other men will try their luck, but if she is yours and likes you for your good character, no other man will dissuade her from you.
If you sense other men are also trying to woo her, and maybe even getting close to her; keep your calm.