Shutterstock One of the worst things a White man can do on a date is re-enforce Black stereotypes, even if it’s in a joking way. Because that tells me that you are simply judging me by my skin even though one would think you wouldn’t do that (after all, you are on a date with a Black woman).
You may find it funny, but I don’t, especially if I don’t fit into the stereotype you are talking about. ” Shutterstock In this day and age, I think it’s safe to say that most White people know that referencing fried chicken in any way shape or form to a Black person can be offensive.
When I first read it, I couldn’t believe the sense of entitlement this man had, considering he’s called for the extermination of black women, and has unapologetically voiced his hatred for most of them.
Worse, when he was dating a white woman, he encouraged all black men to leave black women alone and get themselves a “snow queen.” He’s like the typical bitter black male–they hate us, but still want to fuck us.
It won’t make me think you’re cooler; it will only make me think that you’re trying too hard.
Image Source: Generally speaking, it’s not a good idea to get into a deep discussion about politics on a first date, but for some reason, White men will sometimes want to know what you think about certain popular issues concerning African Americans.
The story usually ends with “I told them no because you should not judge someone by the color of their skin” or “I said you shouldn’t do that because it’s racist.” Can we just have a normal date where we talk about what we like to do for fun or what we do for a living?Unfortunately, some people still haven’t gotten the memo about hot sauce.Not all Black people love hot sauce, hot wings, or spicy food.Once again, please don’t re-enforce Black stereotypes.Thinkstock **Sigh…that age old question that just won’t go away…even on a date.