so we stay in dysfunctional relationships trying to heal to the point of complete sacrifice of ourselves. A wounded spirit will almost always bring a sense of sadness upon first meeting, and may reflect a lonely vibration. At the end of the day you’re at peace with yourself and the person you love. How to Tell if it is Love or Pity Remember the first time you saw a wounded animal? It hurt you inside and probably made you cry — even more so if you thought that you could not heal the animal. You can't help the feelings you do or don't have, so don't crush yourself over it.=) Just be a good friend to him and make sure he's alright. That's why we have dating and don't just immediately marry one another.He’s nice and cute, but he’s also like a brother to me.My friend told me I should date him so he has something to live for, but if he finds out I don’t feel that way, it’ll be even worse.
It may be difficult for them to laugh — and easy for them to cry. Outside of the daily real life challenges, such as illness and loss, which should bring natural compassion an empathy, love should make you feel good about yourself. You feel warm and fuzzy, and as you drift off to sleep with the one you love, whether on the phone or beside each other, you’re not afraid.
Secondly, "How many guys REALLY have their eyes on you right now? I came here for help, not to be bullshitted by some guy who thinks men deserved to be dated just because they want it.
Have to say, at least personally, one of the worst things is to have a girl so close to you as a great friend and "love you", but not have any actual romantic attraction to you.
Recently I found out that he self-harms and has even attempted suicide.
I talked to him and told him to never do that again, but his self-esteem is really low.