About 20 years ago, my husband and I befriended this other couple. The husbands had a falling out seven years ago and we all stopped speaking.She particularly shunned me after their argument, which had nothing to do with me or her. Fast forward to when I was divorced for one year and they were separated and in divorce proceedings. He is now divorced and upon finding out about us, she has had a major meltdown. I have asked him numerous times to just provide a reminder.
Holding on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can stymie an otherwise promising relationship.That kind of a mistake usually suggests unresolved feelings for an ex.Looking at souvenirs from a relationship is part of the healing process.Watch out for a partner who turns affections on and off. Your partner may be cold and pull away when feeling guilty about not having given the same kind of love in the past relationship.Then the passion may get turned up again when your partner feels guilty for withdrawing from you.