Let’s say he loves going to concerts, or he’s really excited to go to a concert. ” When you ask men questions like this, they light up.
You’d want to ask him things like, “Really, you’re going to a ::whoever the artist is:: concert? Do you like concerts in general, or is it just because you like that artist? Guys are kind of weird with emotions; we keep them contained for the majority of our life and interactions, but when a woman wants to explore what we’re excited by, what we love or what we’re passionate about, we can’t say enough!
I think it’s important to make the distinction between what men want in a relationship and what men want with a woman.
MORE: 5 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Men Another area to drill into is his activity passions – whether it’s business, rock climbing, playing guitar, chess, or even video games… Whether it’s winning at business or even living the social life they want, they need to feel like they’re a “winner” in the areas of life that are important to them.
Winning in the world essentially means that he’s getting what he wants to get out of life in the way he wants to get it.
Second, if you seem interested in his interests, he’ll want to bring you into his world and expose you to it.
In relationship terms, men love sharing what they love with people and having those people love it too.