Reward him for good behavior, and ignore bad behavior.He’s not a dog; it’s not your responsibility to train him to be a good boy.Straddle the line between showing interest and playing hard to get.Ever notice the contradiction between a man’s desire to chase and how turned on he is by an aggressive woman? Sometimes the ball is in your court, and you have to send it back to him if you want him to keep playing.Courtney Hardwick By day, Courtney is a digital marketing copywriter living in Toronto, Canada.
There’s nothing wrong with having high expectations, because if he really wants to, he’ll meet them. Does he shrug and move on to a girl who will hang all over him without any effort on his part?
They don’t want to feel like a last minute plan or an afterthought.
This may present itself as a game, but with a little extra planning to ask a date out in advance, I’ll bet you’ll hear a lot more “yes’s” and feel like women are a lot less hard to get.
If so, you’ll know it’s not you he wants, it’s just a girl – any girl.
Take opportunities to show him that he isn’t your only option. If he sees another guy paying attention to you, it’ll remind him that not only are you a catch and he’s lucky to have you, but there are plenty of other guys ready to swoop in if he messes up.