If you are having sex with multiple partners it makes sense to think about safer sex and use condoms and dams (even if you are using other forms of contraception).
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Some might argue it’s right to highlight such possibilities, others that they’re used to put people off having alternative sexual experiences.
When you meet someone be very clear what you would like to do, where your boundaries are and what is not ok.
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