Roberts, founder of To Be a Slut and cofounder of I'd Tap That, tells Bustle.
"This is heaps easier to do online when you can see each other's dating profiles.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.
"It is better sooner than later to mention dealbreakers, so that you are fair to the other person, and so that you are not wasting either of your time.
One thing is for sure, though: Strong, healthy, long-term relationships don't just happen: They take diligence, awareness and a definite sense of being present and in the moment.
When all else fails, a smart dose of honesty and open-mindedness goes a long way when you're first getting to know someone. But in the end, whether you follow this expert's advice or that one's doesn't matter so much.
By writing it down, it'll become crystal clear whether the new endeavor is a wise plan or not.
And don't forget to write down where you see your new relationship heading, he says.