It’s your job to make what little they see of you on your profile interesting enough to intrigue them to want know more.So if all you have on your profile is your age, height and a boring blurb about how you’re an “easy going person who doesn’t take life too seriously” you really should start re-thinking your strategy.Attractive women on these websites literally get hundreds of messages each day from men and it would be humanly impossible to carry on a genuine conversation with every one of them, hoping to find one that’s interesting. Write something that’ll get her attention and make her curious about you.For example, I once started a conversation on Tinder by asking a girl how she had dyed her hair that exact shade of purple in her profile picture.
So you’ve decided that it’s time you put on your cyber-social boots and jumped into the fray, too.
And while we’re on the subject of first messages, try and stay away from clichés you find on the Internet, and retire those creepy pickup lines. You’re sending generic messages Another big mistake that guys make on online dating websites is when they use the same generic message on each and every girl. So do yourself a favor and take the time to personalize each message you send.
You’ll see a much higher return on your time and effort this way.
There will be a time and place to share these stories with a potential partner you are involved with down the road, but the place to list these problems isn’t in your profile description.4.
You aren’t being congruent One of the biggest mistakes I see guys make on their online dating profiles is when they try to be something they are not, which I totally understand. We all have egos and we all want to see ourselves in the best possible light.