De Angelo is suggesting that a woman does not freely ‘choose’ who she is attracted to, but can be influenced by all sorts of outside sources.
The key is to control those things which are in your control and aim them at the woman in such a way as to force her to be attracted to you. This is a direct shot at some of the weaker facets of the Mystery Method.
This comes from most men’s basic inability to read a woman’s body language.
She might be sending out all kinds of signals that she’s into us or not into us, or that she kind of likes the man but doesn’t like to kiss on the first date, but we’re too worried about impressing her to pick up on those subtle female signals.
But if part of your “desires as a man” is to control, manipulate, lie to, or berate a woman, then your definition of “man” could use a review.David De Angelo is an attractive man, especially compared to some of the famously unattractive stars of the seduction community (Ross Jeffries, Neil Strauss, etc.).Being unattractive in the world of seduction advice is a boon.He redefines the nature of the male-female intimate relationship by suggesting that it’s not a friendship at all.If a woman wants a friend, she has a hundred of them just a phone call away.